Joshua Fields Millburn said this as the closing remark at the 'Less is Now' tour and I hate to say it but I think he is speaking from experience and he is trying to save us from the same mistake. I know that I have been guilt of loving things to much and ignoring those I love. I am sure we have all done this once or twice in our lives. The thing is if we do love things and use people we will be lonely because no one wants to be used or second best to someones things. In the show Hoarders that is often the reason that the kids are upset with the parents is because they feel that their loved one is valuing their things more than that relationship. We must break out of that mentality before we lose those that we love.